Trust??

What is trust?? Not trust funds but trust as in belief in someone or something. So what really is trust??

Trust is both and emotional and logical act. Emotionally, it is where you expose your vulnerabilities to people, but believing they will not take advantage of your openness. Logically, it is where you have assessed the probabilities of gain and loss, calculating expected utility based on hard performance data, and concluded that the person in question will behave in a predictable manner. In practice, trust is a bit of both.

So when is considered breach of trust?? When the person u trust is no longer truthful to u?? Or is there some actions which is unacceptable to you that u deem as breach of trust?? For me, breach of trust is when the person  i trusted the most done things which are highly unacceptable to me is what hurt most. I literally feel the heartache. But then again, friends told me its life. So what can i do with such a ‘life’?? Accept it? Change it? Or modify it?

I guess i can only learn to accept plus modify my mindset if i can do nothing to change the situation. This is what i call life sucks!!!

The new year

2010 approached at such a fast rate that 2009 has gone by without me realising it. This new year comes with happy and sad news. Happy because i have found a new job, though no more lazing around. Hee hee. Good thing is i will have salary in my bank every month w/out having to worry when my savings will be dry.. hahaha

Sad because something changed in a cousin’s family. I pity the kid involved. He is such a cheerful and hyper kid, not knowing what is happening at his age. How are the parents going to face him when he grow up? Though such situations are supposed to be common nowadays, when it happened to somebody close to you, i guess its still difficult to say ‘its common’. I wish for the best of all luck for the little kid, though not sure how much luck will he be given.

The only consolation is he is still young. In time to come, wish things will turn for the better and he doesnt have to know what he don’t need to know.